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We should all be feminists | Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie | TEDxEuston

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Never miss a talk! SUBSCRIBE to the TEDx channel: http://bit.ly/1FAg8hB http://www.tedxeuston.com Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie a renowned Nigerian novelist was born in Nigeria in 1977. She grew up in the university town of Nsukka, Enugu State where she attended primary and secondary schools, and briefly studied Medicine and Pharmacy. She then moved to the United States to attend college, graduating summa cum laude from Eastern Connecticut State University with a major in Communication and a minor in Political Science. She holds a Masters degree in Creative Writing from Johns Hopkins and a Masters degree in African Studies from Yale University. She was a 2005-2006 Hodder Fellow at Princeton, where she taught introductory fiction. Chimamanda is the author of Half of a Yellow Sun, which won the 2007 Orange Prize For Fiction; and Purple Hibiscus, which won the 2005 Best First Book Commonwealth Writers' Prize and the 2004 Debut Fiction Hurston/Wright Legacy Award. In 2009, her collection of short stories, The Thing around Your Neck was published. She was named one of the twenty most important fiction writers today under 40 years old by The New Yorker and was recently the guest speaker at the 2012 annual commonwealth lecture. She featured in the April 2012 edition of Time Magazine, celebrated as one of the 100 Most Influential People in the World. She currently divides her time between the United States and Nigeria. Intro and Outro music by Kadialy Kouyate performed at TEDxEuston 2011. You can view the full performance here: /watch/wh3LGW5DfUKDL . In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.

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    @tesslynfrancis9322منذ 10 سنوات "you should aim to be successful, but not too successful, otherwise you will threaten the man" so true! I'm studying to be a lawyer and I id="hidden1" class="buttons"> once got told that I should get married before I qualify as an advocate because it will be harder for me to find a husband thereafter. Is that all my existence as a woman is reduced to? A wife? Not a woman who is able to be strong, independent and impact her environment? I would rather die alone, an accomplished successful lawyer, than submit to the patriarchal standards of my society, thank you very much. ....وسعت 619
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    @cynthiachieze6412منذ 4 سنوات I've been told alot of times by my teachers and mentors that I'm too ambitious and I will not get married because no man will have me under their id="hidden2" class="buttons"> roof. Today my career has been all about growth and I'm married. The modern man will love an ambitious woman for all she stands for. Dont ever let your ambition be disregarded because people believe you shouldn't be as successful as your counterpart. Thanks Chimmanda for speaking out! ....وسعت 2920
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    @dorcaskamau201منذ 3 سنوات That's so on point "a man who would be intimidated by me is exactly the kind of man I would not be interested in" 761
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    @TalkingMoneyWithNoziمنذ 2 سنوات This is the best speech I have ever listened to. I am proud to be a woman, I am proud to be African. Thank you Chimamanda! 250
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    @alexandravar.3661منذ 4 سنوات I cannot express how much i apreciate this speech. She adresses everything that needs to be adressed, I wish more people could see this 2443
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    @raindrops7175منذ 3 سنوات "we praise girls for virginity but we don't praise boys for virginity and its always makes me wonder how exactly this is supposed to work out. id="hidden3" class="buttons"> Because the loss of virginity is usually a cause of involved.++" ....وسعت 1251
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    @morgandaisy9881منذ 10 سنوات I feel sad about the way women and men are afraid to say they are feminists. Chimamanda says, "a world of happier men, and happier women who are truer id="hidden4" class="buttons"> to themselves". Please, don't accuse all feminists of hating men. Focus on the love and positivity of wanting equality for men and women! I want a world where men can cry without being called "gay" and where women can ask for fairer pay without being called feminists in a negative way. Let us  strive towards this equalism, to become better human beings. Much love, Morgan. ....وسعت 354
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    @african_ciciمنذ 3 سنوات "I have chosen to no longer be apologetic for my femininity" Amen and Amen to that 2405
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    @himanshisharma1310منذ 2 سنوات "Boys and girls are undeniably different biologically. But socialization exaggerates the differences." 384
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    @felicitymemela1963منذ 3 سنوات I remember my English professor at university made us read Adichie's book called "Purple Hibiscus" & I had no interest in it or any of id="hidden5" class="buttons"> the books written by Africans that were part of the English module, because I knew its rare to find journal articles to reference since not many people analyze African writers. Silly me I thought I'll definitely fail that module, but the moment i started reading her book I couldn't put it down & the more my professor gave us a background story about Adichie my interest for her work grew. In conclusion my final mark for that module in that semester was 80% & starting from then I learnt to respect African authors because their writing is just excellent. ....وسعت 119
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    @ilovememyselfnidwمنذ 4 سنوات "We have been raised to think ofwomen as inherently guilty and have been raised to expect so little of men that the idea of men as savage beings without any control is somehow acceptable" 590
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    @faelynnnnمنذ 2 سنوات I finally got around to watching this speech and all I want to do is scream from the rooftops, "I've been saying this for years!". id="hidden7" class="buttons"> />It's truly amazing to hear all the experiences that we as Nigerian women have had to go through presented so eloquently.
    I only wish that my spirit never dies, because if there's one thing society does best, it is to kill the spirit of anyone who dares to challenge it's norms.
    Thank you Chimamanda, for this and for all you do.
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    @sakeenawhite1472منذ 4 سنوات " culture doesn't make people, people make culture." - I felt that! amazing words! 6779
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    @delilah28100منذ 4 سنوات I love this talk.I'm not a mother yet, but thank you for this, I know how I'll raise them empowered. 49
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    @ifunanyamolokwu6121منذ 3 سنوات Hands down this is one of the best Ted Talks I've had the pleasure to listen to!!! 38
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    @HunkyChunksمنذ 3 سنوات This actually made me cry. Thank you so much for your words. ♡ Beautiful and inspiring speech that I'll have to listen to again. 31
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    @DrLuciannoمنذ 4 سنوات Adichie can never go wrong in my eyes! I watched this two years ago and it spurs me through my feminism journey. Always fresh like a wine 173
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    @mariettetc1منذ 2 سنوات I cannot tell you the number of times I have rewatched this talk. so much of what Chimamanda says is so similar to Indian culture. Such an inspiration. 214
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    @madisongrooters966منذ 4 سنوات "a man who is intimidated by me is exactly the type of man i am not interested in" 4363
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    @romansoehuazelei1925منذ 4 سنوات She is very professional in delivering a fabulous talk in TED. It has been thousands times that I am listening to this speech. It is very useful and helpful id="hidden9" class="buttons"> to me in improving knowledge. In addition to this, it is improving my language skills in speaking and writing English. You are such a glorious lady to lead the Women Revolution.
    Thank you Chimamanda,
    Roman.
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    @antoinerebut6409منذ 2 سنوات This speech is inspiring. A lot of what she talks about in Nigeria can be applicable everywhere. I realise I'm not doing enough to support feminism. 72
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    @learningenglishwithemily754منذ 2 سنوات "Culture doesn't make people, people make culture" What a wonderful words I will always remember this 49
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    @erikquinonez1136منذ 4 سنوات All the speech was amazing but when she started talking about culture and said “ culture doesnt make us, we make culture”, that line was brutal, in the good sense of the word. 50
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    @ekta9789منذ 3 سنوات The fact that it was 8 years ago and still very relatable is just-- 360
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    @jankijan8004منذ 7 سنوات Frankly, I feel ashamed because I being a man, did a lot of those things that she mentioned. Now I cannot change the society but I can definitely change id="hidden12" class="buttons"> myself. At least, I will try to. And I will raise my son and daughter appropriately, as individuals. ....وسعت 6622
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    @chitobiobaku7831منذ 3 سنوات I'm a Nigerian & a mother of 2 boys who are 10yrs & 7yrs respectively. My boys enjoy cooking with their dad most times and we all do the house id="hidden13" class="buttons"> chores together as they don't want anything to stress mum. There's truth to all you said about gender inequality mostly in Africa but I think times are changing ....وسعت 182
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    @necolebitchieمنذ 4 سنوات "A man who was intimidated by me, obviously, I have no interest in". Love this! 108
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    @mominakhan5573منذ 3 سنوات At 16 I was told by a friend that no honorable man will marry me because I want to make a documentary on prostitutes . I told her that I don't want id="hidden14" class="buttons"> to marry a man whose fragile ego is more important to than what an entire segment of society is going through. ....وسعت 35
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    @sadiayasin6297منذ 3 سنوات I just discovered you . Love from Somali girl. My favorite quote” the point is we are not apes”. 24
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    @hannguyen5637منذ 2 سنوات “Culture doesn’t make people, people make culture” these words hit differently! 16
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    @kiruhduhمنذ 4 سنوات “The problem with gender is that it prescribes to how we should be rather than recognizing how we are” 2217
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    @Stourmburnمنذ 3 سنوات I could watch this a hundred times and probably will! What an amazing woman! 99
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    @victoriaimaghaمنذ 3 سنوات This speech is everything!!
    Simply put yet carries the message wholly.
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    @patnaiksonal31منذ 3 سنوات Gosh, she sounded so much like she's lived in India all her life. So much relatable. 42
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    @drizzlejolie4506منذ 4 سنوات I feel like I’m in a different world someone telling me my story life. I feel like I’m in a world where everything is alright and the plight of women are seen . I love this and I wish everyone would listen to this . 28
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    @Esterferreiradecastroمنذ 2 سنوات Amazing speech, every point she makes is so perfect and necessary, it’s a standing ovation for every sentence 8
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    @saranordtvet5975منذ 7 سنوات "Culture doesn't make people, people make culture" ❤ 4241
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    @OneDirectionSeleمنذ 3 سنوات Honestly I am grateful that I found this through Beyonce at a young age. Without her this wouldn't have been exposed to me when I was 12, and has stuck with me up until now. And I will continue to come back to it. 35
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    @saysophyfarm1780قبل 5 أشهر Ten years ago and it's still so powerful and fresh, girl you're amazingly talented 5
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    @truthhurts5938قبل 6 أشهر This speech was inspiring and very beautiful. Africa as whole has a big role to play in dealing with such issues and I am glad to see others passionate about it. 5
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    @ikechibenedict9049قبل 6 أشهر Whoever that raised this woman, is a Gold to this world 9
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    @thriftysimplicityمنذ 2 سنوات Everytime I hear Chimamanda speak I'm enriched with knowledge! I LOVE this! ❤ 7
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    @beachdaisy4080منذ 3 سنوات My grandmother said there's no such thing as a man's job.you either can do it or you can't. Period. 1772
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    @niffyfash6673منذ 4 سنوات Back in the university as an undergrad, a lecturer asked when I wanted to be married. I said after my doctoral degree. He was shocked! No, it would mean id="hidden18" class="buttons"> that there will be very few men able to stand me or even be at par with my success. So I said after my master's degree but I now realize that even with that, very few men in my circle can compete with that. I am reversing to post-doc degree or when I can actually find a man who isn't intimidated by a woman's achievements. ....وسعت 147
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    @siwer6028منذ 4 سنوات One of the only feminsm video where i don't lose my braincells reading the comments. Thank you guys. And amazing video 815
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    @mj2269منذ 2 سنوات I love this, I love coming back to watch it, love seeing the comments who understand and appreciate. Going to ignore those that struggle to understand id="hidden19" class="buttons"> that discussing one problem doesn't eliminate other problems and that a problem can be exacerbated or dimnished in different situations. Privelege, most of the time, is accidental because we can't anticipate where and what we'll be born as but like in all aspects of living it comes with responsibilities e.g. eating to keep on living and being alive is a privilege. So we should seek to understand our privilege and use it for making things better, not worse. Having privilege doesn't make you immune to trauma or discrimnation but in general shouldn't the goal be to eliminate all unjust discrimination on things we had no choice over? ....وسعت 15
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    @tintamanenguمنذ 4 سنوات love chimamanda. This speech was so flawless, just like all of her talks. I Will be back to watch this again, atleast a billion times. Love her so much ❤️ 9
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    @RaySimmonzمنذ 3 سنوات I love this!! Finally something that completely resonates with my values of faminism.. It's not about invalidating men's struggling but recognizing women's issues. 36
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    @orin1617منذ 5 سنوات I've finally found someone who understands my anger. It really breaks my heart that a lot of women just accept that. As long as I am alive, I will keep fighting 1859
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    @haninehassan9490منذ 4 سنوات Read your book before I came here. Found myself agreeing and resonating with everything you've written. Yes for strong women! 10
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    @traci0133منذ 4 سنوات Watching this again made my heart smile.thank you for raising my frequency to several levels, I see the Divinity in you Goddess. 8
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    @mohaddesehnouri695منذ 2 سنوات Oh my gosh!
    She made me cry because I loved her speach so much!
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    @lavender2427منذ 3 سنوات When I was 10th grade, in our syllabus I had to study her speech. She is a wonderful woman. 17
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    @TheQueenshillpodمنذ 2 سنوات if only we can have this content simplified to all levels of intellect and broadcast throughout Nigeria. what if we can re-identify the religious norms id="hidden23" class="buttons"> of our communities throughout Nigeria? even create a curriculum which new generation can inculcate slowly through time? what if? what if? CNA, you're a blessing in our time. ....وسعت 15
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    @parvinbanu9203منذ 4 سنوات "Marriage is a language of ownership rather than language of partnership".
    It strikes me!
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    @reythejediladyviajakku6078منذ 4 سنوات I’d like to hear more TED talks from her. Her messages are so powerful and true 20
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    @cynthiachieze6412منذ 4 سنوات I love this lady in particular. This speech is sensational and I'm glad to have stumbled on it 6
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    @msbnyce3214منذ 4 سنوات You inspire me a great deal Chimamanda. Watching you brings calm to my soul. I feel so motivated that as a woman, I can do anything I put my mind to without id="hidden24" class="buttons"> any man's help if I believe in my abilities and work hard at it. Living in this world we call a "man's world" will definitely be a thing of the past should all women start working together with genuine love, respect and support for each other. ....وسعت 13
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    @vivreavecaudaceمنذ 2 سنوات Absolutely brilliant!!! I was captivated right until the end! This is our future as a civilization, we need to change the world's culture. 3
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    @cassandrasteingo5941منذ 5 سنوات “We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller, we say to girls you can have ambition- but not too much, you should aim to be successful but not too successful otherwise you will threaten the man” - Chimanda Ngozi. What a powerhouse, her simplicity in explaining this was immaculate. ....وسعت 1068
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    @itnajiaga8341منذ 4 سنوات I love how she is feeling so human when she’s talking 32
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    @reythejediladyviajakku6078منذ 4 سنوات Awwww! Her niece came! Such an auntie to give a shout out like that 31
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    @aestheticanziمنذ 2 سنوات One of the best ted speech not only because of her topic but also bcoz of the way she deliver it, how she make her point, how she communicate it. Its very delightful to watch her. And her voice is so powerful and so clear. 1
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    @estherkabwe2739منذ 3 سنوات Wow. Every person in the world needs to hear this. I appreciate your words mam 8
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    @sdereseمنذ 2 سنوات A powerful message to women and men all over the world,applicable under all circumstances, thank you my sister 5
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    @divinelia5907منذ 4 سنوات “They grown up to women who have turned pretence into an art form” That’s where “IM FINE” comes from. 881
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    @kerlipetersonمنذ 4 سنوات The best speech I´ve seen in YouTube.
    I´ve shared it 2-3 times on March 8th! ;)
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    @sophienachbaur6516منذ 4 سنوات I wish we as women would love and support each other more instead of tearing each other down. We've all been socialized to see each other as the competition instead of competing against men for positions of leadership. 19
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    @virginiaferro2641العام الماضي Dear Chimamanda. I just love you and admire you.
    Everything you describe is just the same in my country in South America too!
    Hugs from Argentina.
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    @ncomminoمنذ 4 سنوات Wow this speech has really opened my eyes to a different way of thinking. 7
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    @sarah-louiserossi1586قبل 6 أشهر So intelligent, funny and profound. I am so grateful 4
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    @CallMeAdamzمنذ 11 سنوات This reminds me of years ago, back in secondary school when a teacher divided my class into two groups for a quiz. Boys versus Girls and at the end of id="hidden29" class="buttons"> the quiz the girls won and he said to us (guys) "Why did you let the girls win?" I complained that he was being sexist by assuming that the girls won because we allowed them to win and he called me a woman and insulted me. Funny enough, everyone in class laughed at me, including the girls. Like Chimamanda expounds here, some African women aren't raised to be feminist, and I grew up believing everyone is equal, not just gender but race and sexuality. It is ok for a man to be feminist too, as John Stuart Mill supported the equality of women and the freedom of individuals. ....وسعت 1292
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    @keariyamkebede3080منذ 4 سنوات ''21st centaury is different now things that is important is the more creative person, the more intelligent person and there are no hormones for id="hidden30" class="buttons"> those attributes.''
    definitely Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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    @ebersonvargas3473منذ 4 سنوات Tô encantado, já tinha ouvido falar da Chimamanda, mas nunca tinha visto ela falar. Maravilhosa! Amei!!! 6
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    @friendsforum7795منذ 3 سنوات Greatly articulated talk and happy to share things are changing rapidly, at least, seen with my friends and fraternity. I am quite optimistic for opening up greater opportunities for women across globe 4
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    @hdshjsمنذ 2 سنوات Her charisma and sense of humor are outstanding. I listened totally captivated. Remarkable speach. 1
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    @lynb2039منذ 2 سنوات Over many years including a visit to Nigeria in 2018, I believe there is something special about Nigerian people, particularly Nigerian women. I have seen id="hidden32" class="buttons"> and listened to, met and talked with Nigerian women and so many of them are strong and thoughtful, beautiful and opinionated. I have never been to a country that smiled as much as Nigerians do - some of the most beautiful smiles in the world, across all economic and familial spectrums. Nigerian people are proud and joking and humor is a part of their culture. Nigeria is a nation engaged in change on many levels, the enchanting, intelligent and dedicated speaker is a prime example of the success far more Nigerian women AND MEN will strive for and experience, as long as the government constructs and invests in education for its youth. THANK YOU FOR YOUR BRILLIANT AND ENTERTAINING AND IMPORTANT SPEECH about equality and opportunity for all. ....وسعت 20
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    @diyguy1287منذ 4 سنوات I feel bad for the people who stumbled upon this video and skipped it .. or heard the first five minutes and stopped.. it's the most positive way of talking about the subject 570
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    @Lovelynesikeقبل 5 أشهر 10 years later and this is still one of my favourite videos on the Internet 5
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    @godsheritage9857منذ 3 سنوات Listening to this in October 2021 and wondering why I am just seeing it now.
    Thanks Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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    @rivkavermeijمنذ 3 سنوات Very well-spoken, thank you for the amazing ted talk! 3
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    @kerelenisمنذ 10 سنوات The comment section is basically just men making this about them. 1786
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    @VermillionReddمنذ 2 سنوات I swear I love my Nigerian people. We always find a way to make things funny to keep people interested 6
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    @zainabhiader5842منذ 3 سنوات رائعه فذه ذكيه معبره واضحه رقيقه منصفه ودوده هي و خطابها
    من شفت انو الفيديو مدته نصف ساعه تكاسلت اشوفه و توقعت أني اتركه بالنص لكن كملته بدون ما احس و حته حزنت لان خلص هذا ما تمثله النسويه و شيء جميل ان نتبنى هذه الأسس في افعالنا و تربية اطفالنا من أجل جيل واعي متسامح أنساني و سليم
    مليئ بالحب و العدل ❤️
    .
    ...وسعت
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    @lilyleighreinheart3734منذ 3 سنوات THIS IS SO AMAZING! THIS IS LIFE CHANGING! 4
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    @arwa-wl7phمنذ 3 سنوات this must be the most amazing ted talk I've ever seen. thank you so much Chimamanda. 2
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    @wawa5388قبل 5 أشهر Thank you Chimamanda! All girls watching this felt every word ❤ 3
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    @ilovememyselfnidwمنذ 4 سنوات "The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be rather than recognizing how we are" 292
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    @roodjyمنذ 4 سنوات So yeah this the most valuable video I ever seen ❤️ Thank you so much 5
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    @Thecryingcanvasمنذ 4 سنوات the amount of papers I've had to write about this ted-talk, in university, gives me hope in what we're being taught 15
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    @baibhabi9879منذ 2 سنوات Every young person needs to hear this. Thank you Chimamanda. 2
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    @AngelLivesMatterمنذ 2 سنوات Bless your soul. Thank you for understanding. Wipes away tears and is speechless. 1
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    @vikramsinghjamwal242منذ 3 سنوات I came across this during one of my class, my professor made us listen that, this was so much apt and deep, it's the perfect lesson ppl of the world id="hidden35" class="buttons"> need, everyone needs to hear this and understand it. This is one of the most powerful speeches in history of humankind. ✨ ....وسعت 8
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    @PascalineKelechiمنذ 4 سنوات Best 30 minutes of my life even after many years ! 14
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    @joanneakinyi8290قبل 5 أشهر This is the most intelligent Nigerian woman that I have ever come across 2
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    @inachristensen8406العام الماضي This is so informative! Yes, i am happy to learn that a 'single story' could be damaging but yet rebuilding . 1
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    @feministthoughts729منذ 4 سنوات From a female scientist who is uninterested in marriage, God bless you.
    Edit : God loves us all equally and infinitly we all need id="hidden36" class="buttons"> to work to make our world a better place! If you have questions about Jesus, please ask me in the replies! I'll try my best as a fellow human! :)
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